I have advice!!!
My dd was born a month after my cousins son was born.
I never wanted a boy so I was thrilled to have my girl! However, she did want a girl and Im sure she must have dreaded seeing me and my daughter at the family cookout but she dressed that little boy SOOOOOOOOOO cute that everyone was swooning over him and my dd was pissed about being in a scratchy pink tutu haha
I had to take off the tutu (which gave her a horrible rash) she was all blotchy and disheveled while little man over there looked like a strapping english gent in his polo onsie, plaid shorts, and newsboy cap. haha
My advice!....OUTDRESS HER! lol it worked for my cousin lol!!!!