Gonna start TTC and am scared

I have a 20 month old girl who is the original high needs toddler. She is really wonderful but taking care of her needs full on parenting. So DH says let's stop at two. I would really really really like a boy but am not sure if I'm ready, as in done enough for a boy sway. Breastfeeding still. Mainly night dream feeds. NO menstruation yet. Yup, my last AF was Dec 2009! Calcium: not drank milk and taken calcium pill in a while. But I cannot give up my lil chunk of daily cheese Supplements: prenatal, 5 mg folic acid, fish oil, evening primrose oil, fertil tea from Amazon Diet: drinking soya milk every day, green tea, coffee, alkaline water (this water filter that increases the alkaline level of tap water), more savory food Tool ;) : using preseed I have been taking my BBT and monitoring my CM in a bid to pinpoint my ovulation date. But BF is throwing things out of whack. My BBT is 36.2 degree celcius thereabout, and I read that my BBT should be above 36.9 to sway boy. I have ordered a bunch of ovulation strips. Now that it's the agreed time to start TTC, I'm getting cold feet. Have I 'prepared' enough? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Hey perswayme! Frst good luck, second just wanted to say good luck and it gets better after two years old! Lol! I understand about cold feet, but just make sure you are ready. Also if you ate getting up at night still (bless you!) your bbt will be off and may be difficult to pinpoint O. Also breastfeeding can lower blood sugar which sways girl. You may wait until your dd is weaned and sleeps through the night so your cycles can get regular. They say timing is least important but if you can get a somewhat steady cycle O is easier to predict. Plus making your body too alkaline and taking boy drinks and supps may not be good for dd. feel free to come to the Swaying forum and in there is the TTC boy tread. The ladies there are sooo helpful. I'm pretty good with all the sway info so if you have any questions or concerns just ask!

Can I ask about the soya milk.... This is good fit boy sway??????

Hi baby bleu, thanks for your note. I ended up waiting. We cut down on nursing and my period returned in Sep. In my second cycle, I conceived, BD on my O date. We spent months on the boys diet. Now I am 10 weeks pregnant and am waiting eagerly to know. I'm really hoping all has paid off. I abstained from milk, calcium, yoghurt, ate plenty of potato, chips, instant noodles, v8 juice, wheatgrass, royal jelly, banana, homeamade sugar free lemonade, drinking alkaline water... I did cave in and ate cheese, I love it too much. I did implant on my right, so hopefully the Ramzi theory is a first indication. Fingers crossed and hope to have good news soon!

Hi Dee, Actually I am not sure. I avoided soy like mad when TTC DD and got a girl. I noticed many of my friends who drink a lot of soy get their boys. It could be anecdotal.

 Congratulations and GL persway-me!! I hope you hear boy.

Thanks Wasabi! I am now 12w4d and have a 13w scan for down syndrome, I'm hoping to get some good nube shots. So far my u/s at 6 and 10 wks seem boy according to Ramzi theory. I'm hopeful!

 Great...I'II look out for them in the Ultrasound prediction forum.x

Wasabi, I have posted my u/s. Can you please take a look? Thanks!