Are any of you....???

Are any of you with GD or EGD still clinging to the delusional idea the the ultrasound tech is wrong? 

I have to admit that I am, I have to have another ultrasound monday, I was dreading the ultrasound because I don't want to see this boy child ever...but then I was like well I'm just going to make her check again. I am sooo hoping they are wrong! Desperately hoping. If they tell me boy again I'm wondering if I'm going to have the same meltdown all over again that I had this past Monday or if my logical side which is hardly existent will kick in with an I told you so?!?!

I think some people will always hope the tech is wrong, thats pretty normal, I think. Working in the OB field, I have had several deliveries where the mom was told one sex and it popped out another, it does happen, although if the tech is any good and the baby is cooperative, it isn't likely.

*hug*

After my 12 week u/s with DS#4 I was sooo hoping the tech and pics were wrong..... when I went to my 15 week confirmation u/s he was definately a boy.... I did have another meltdown... not quite as bad.

I have read your previous posts that received a lot of attention.... I have said a number of prayers for you.  I hope that during your pregnancy you will find a peace with your son.  The Lord makes no mistakes.... your son could be your lil man that changes your life forever. 

Good Luck!

When i did my 16 wks u/s my dc told me it seems to be a girl, i just convinced my self it might be a mistake and actually iam still convincing my self the baby might turn out to be a boy, as i am having my 21 wks u/s next wend,so wish me luck .

mother of 2:

When i did my 16 wks u/s my dc told me it seems to be a girl, i just convinced my self it might be a mistake and actually iam still convincing my self the baby might turn out to be a boy, as i am having my 21 wks u/s next wend,so wish me luck .

LUCK! And wish me luck to I am CLINGING to hope!

With DS#1 I had my U/S at 12 weeks. The doc confirmed it and that was that. With DS#2 at 12 weeks a different doc had a hard time telling. She told me if she had to guess she would have said girl. That was the best moment in my life, but then the more experienced doc said if he had to guess, he would say boy. Crushing. So for the next 2 months I carried hope that it was really a girl. Nope. I did however try to prepare myself for the boy news, so it wasn't a total shocker. But crushing again when it was confirmed. I even held out a teeny tiny bit of hope that it could still be a girl until I delivered. Maybe the wad between its legs was the umbilical cord and the doc was wrong. So yes I did hold out hope, but also tried to prepare myself for the unfavorable answer.

I have read all your previous posts. I thought about you a lot last night and prayed for you. Hugs!!

No, not allowing myself to cling to that hope. I saw the boy parts, I have a picture of them, they are obvious. I know it's true. Hoping the tech is wrong...well, that is just as you said - delusional. I need to protect myself from that hope.

 I agree its probably a bit delusional  but it does happen! I'm clinging to the minority! Sometimes they say wrong the whole time. I had a friend who they said boy the whole pregnancy and he came out a girl! She had all blue, she didn't care either way but at the time she was only 16 and really needed to be prepared. 

Delusional?!?! Um I spent hours examaning u/s on both this site and others of boy or girl confirmations and comparing them to what I saw, I also compared some where they showed wrong!?!?!  HOURS I tell ya! 

I really wish you luck, you will never know maybe this tec missed up with ur u/s. I will keep you in my prayers.

 Im so hoping mine was wrong too!( and I had more than 1 u/s)

What are you hoping for?

WMB:

 Im so hoping mine was wrong too!( and I had more than 1)

what are you hoping for?

mother of 2:

WMB:

 Im so hoping mine was wrong too!( and I had more than 1)

what are you hoping for?

boy but Im not lucky and had 3 u/s so it's another girl

I'll admit that when I was pg with DS1, I clung onto the delusional idea that he was a girl for a while.  I had an early ultrasound at about 12-13 weeks and the tech said it looked like it was probably a boy but that it was still too early to say so not to start buying blue just yet.  I was like, "Oh, don't worry - I WON'T!"  After that first ultrasound, I ran out and bought a bunch of pink stuff to kind of discredit her words.  Like, "I'll show them!", as if it would somehow change things before my real gender scan.  I was seeing a high risk doctor, so I had ultrasounds every month.  At the first ultrasound where I could have confirmed the gender I wouldn't even let them tell me.  Most people are excited for that - especially with their first baby!  I was too scared because deep down I knew what I was going to hear.  It was because of what that first tech had told me.  I knew she would not be wrong even though it was early.  That and I just had this sinking feeling that I wouldn't be lucky enough for things to go my way - and of course, I was right.  They confirmed he was a boy at my next ultrasound and it was totally obvious.  Even though I shouldn't have been surprised, the look on my face must have said it all because the tech said "Not what you wanted to hear?" I lost it right there and cried all the way home.

Well..... of got three girls and iam pregnant again and iam so for a boy. I just want some ruff and tumble in my household, iam am sick of bloody princess, fairies and tea parties, i want some dirt, grime and worms and ripped knee jeans that boys make.

Ive had a 12 week scan, and alot of people even though there is no gender nub to be found, are leaning more toward a girl!. Iam thinking of going to have another private scan done, and forcing the U/S Tech at gun point to confirm and make sure its a boy.

Anyway, sending all you ladies the rest of my pink baby dust, cuz by the looks of it, i have too MUCH!!!!!

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