Hi ladies as writing to you because iam so confused here is my story iam pregnant with child number 3 i have 2 girls and this will be our first boy. im 38 weeks pregnant today. i gave birth to first child after 16hours in labour and 10 cm dilated but they had to preform emergecny c-section, my 2nd girl came 3 years after her sister by natural birth and 7 hours labour but they had to vacume the baby due to baby sitting in posterior postion so they had to cut me i ended up with 16 stiches.
Now my problem and what am confused about during my last visit to the hospital the doctor told me i stile have the option to do c-section for my third child for the last 3 days baby movment have been decreased by almost 60% i went and checked every day at the birth unit where i could hear ladies next room were in labour and they were screaming i was almost gona cry ...my baby heart rate havnt been stable been going up and down they have no idea why, iam so worried and confused this Friday i wil be going to the hospital for the weekly checkup the Dr told me they might do internal checkup which might bring on labour .
My mind going crazy at the moment if you were in my place will you go and chose c-section so the baby will come safe and you wont go thru labour pain ... or will you wait and have natural birth .
For me to have c-section means i have to stay in hospital for 5 days and my husband only going to take 1 weeks of and my kids have to go stay over my family home am worried about them so much i do every thing for my girls they both attend school but i always like to do their homework with them and make everything for them ...also am worried about how long will it take me till i heal completely and i can look after the kids and the house.
And if i go natural am worried the Dr told me i might tear and i had bad experince with that also this baby might be sitting in posterior which makes labour way to painful
am so sorry for all this but as i wrote iam confused and this coming Friday i have to tell them what i want. plz help me iam blind and my head going blank