I agree with Lilli...
If you want a girl so badly... how can you judge someone so harshly for wanting one too and then being so thrilled and excited for finally getting pg and finding out it is a girl?!?!
and wishing a boy on her... it made me cringe reading those comments. I want a boy! I get so upset reading posts that are all negative. When people are here for support and not to be fueled!
Boy or Girl... a child is a blessing. If I ever heard someone say having a girl was a punishment Id lose my sanity so quick and they better run for the hills. My DD is a blessing and I am biased but one of the coolest smartest funniest prettiest little girls on the planet. And adding another DD would not be a punishment for us wanting a boy.... it would be a blessing!!
Some people need to be happy about their healthy children they have HERE in this life and stop hating on those with genders they want so badly. BE GRATEFUL. jeez.
I agree giveme needs to seek therapy before TTC#2... prepare yourself because youre not even pg again and you are already throwing all this anger at your friend.
I also think you should seriously consider drifting from this friend because bringing her down when she is so happy isnt exactly a great friend thing to do. And you wouldnt want her to do that to your happiness either. I predict a major blowout one day in the future if you dont get this under control and I can bet giveme is the one at fault. Sorry.