same here, after DD2 and my GD before she was born, i was not going to have GD again. I swayed for this baby but was completely prepared and happy for DD3. we had a name. we still havent discussed boys names. i sometimes still say "she" when i talked about the baby even though baby is confirmed a boy! for me it was really that i wanted to focus on having a healthy child, a sibling close in age with my daughters. when i found out it was a boy, i was not as excited as i thought i would be, but again, because i was cautious. Now that it has been confirmed again and again that he is all boy and that everything seems to be going great with this pregnancy, i can tell you that i am overjoyed! but i can NOT find any cute boys outfit lol. i think its great to be happy to be pregnant without GD or anticipation of GD. enjoy BB!
my beautiful DDs 2009 2010
gone December 2011
born 2012! believe strongly that Biorhythm & Moon gender & Praying got me my son
My boy sway http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/t/243561.aspx