Hello to both of you! I am also from the Chicago area, the western suburbs. Kind of in the same boat. I just had my 3rd boy almost 2 months ago. I was hoping my longing for a girl would just go away! My newest addition is absolutely perfect, however I still just feel incomplete without a girl. We are thinking about doing HT also. Such a complicated decision. Some days I want to start the process immediately and get pregnant tomorrow! Other days, I wonder if I will have regrets, this may sound crazy, but even if I get a girl through HT, will I regret what I needed to do to get her? I'm so hormonal right now which doesn't help! It is so easy for so many I know, most people I know have mixed gender families. It's difficult to find support because gender selection is so voodoo to talk about IRL.
I'm pretty sure we will go through with the HT though. In the end, I think I will be a better mother to my other children if I at least try. I have been looking online and I think that these two places will gender select:
I'm looking for somewhere in the western suburbs if possible. I would love to connect with you guys! My email is firstname.lastname@example.org.