Serenity:Kathryn was the way she spelled to so I will def use that spelling. MomtoRJA yes it was a crazy week. My grandma dies, next day bfp that was very unplanned, 2 days later my dhs mom who is 50 and so close with us is diagnosed with stage 4 cancer that is untreatable. I am now finally getting over the sad things that happened and able to enjoy being pregnant somewhat.... All my grandparents are dead too except one grandma who is totally blind. Its sad they were all great people.
Just remember, there is a reason for everything. Maybe your were giving this gift to help you get through the tragedy of loosing your loved ones.