Oops I did again... or more precisely we did it again.
Whilst still deciding whether we were even going to have a 4th child with DH's travel schedule and living in a new town, it was very much up for debate, Nature took her own course and we are PG. Well I am PG, so decision made!
So no PGD no Microsoft, no special diet, no swaying, nothing, just conceived in love (and lust and a drunk wedding anniversary). Guess we will get what we'll get.
And bizarrely I am at peace with it being a boy. If we're going to have 4, it will be easier for me if they are all the same gender. That said, I would be estatic if it was girl but not disappointed if its boy, not like I was twice before.
We will find out (mainly for mental health reasons!) and I guess it will be January which will be fabulous as my parents will still be here as part of their month long stay!
Fortunately we have a 5 bed room house and a car that will seat 5 too. So the practical things are all covered.
To be honest, it was harder to get my head around being PG again - I didn't speak to DH for about a week and it took me 3-4 weeks to tell my parents!!
Becky
08/2001 - vag birth 10/2004 - c/s for breech - weird 60+ day cycle (failed Shettles) 08/2007 - vbac (failed Shettles, girl diet, acidic environment) Oops! Unintentional PG with no swaying or intervention, conceived in love :) due 05/2010. Think we are done... goodbye Eleanor Hope, sweet girl.
"Life is just what happens to you, while you're busy making other plans" John Lennon
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I was PinkHope but am now BeeQueen!