urrgh...stupid PPL!

So now that we are having a girl...pll go from saying"I hope you have a girl." to saying "Watch her sprout a penis!" The u/s tech seen no boy parts while measuring the femurs and looking underneath...she even asked me if I had any girl names picked out...We weren't able to get any pics of her beaver because when we went back to do the toilet shot she closed up her legs and refused to open them,despite the prodding w/probe and walking around!!! The u/s tech is an experienced tech and according to my OB she has never been wrong! I hate how no-one can support you in your time of happiness and like to say that shtuff... Anyone have this happen when they were told girl after some boys?!

 YES!! Everybody and there brother tried to tell me that my girl was going to end up a boy & that 16 weeks was to early to tell. I actually started believing them after so long even though my tech was 99% sure it was a girl. Well at 20 weeks I went for my level 2 and first thing tech did was go to gender and said its a girl. I drove myself nuts for those 4 weeks though thinking the tech was wrong.. Dont do it to yourself, Im sure your tech knows a little bit more about what your baby is then people who just want to bring you down. Congrats on your Little buddle of pink !! 

 I never had boys, but I was told girl 3 times, and they never grew nothing...Even when I never "saw" girl on the US the tech was right all 3 times....Im sure u got your girl!  Enjoy your pregnancy, and congrats on your 

That's horrendous! I can't believe people would say such things! I can't offer any advice but I feel sure that if the u/s tech said girl, that's what she is! Congrats!

Unfortunately, I'm the reason why people say that.  My last baby, I was told at two different u/s (the first with a definite yes, and the 2nd a most likely) that I was having a girl.  But, I can assure you that my little one is ALL boy!

What's funny is when I was in that "girl" time, I was the one that was questioning.  Though my tech seemed confident and everyone who saw my gender shot pics were reassuring that it was DEFINITELY A GIRL, I was so afraid that I was going to be "the one" that they got wrong.  :(   Whenever people would ask me what I was having, my reply was always, "The tech says it's a girl.  I hope she was right."  They'd look at me like I had 3 heads, and say, "Didn't you have an ultrasound?" They couldn't understand MY hesitation.  Kinda surprising since your experience is so different.

It was a hard time, but the thing I know from this end is that I survived it.  I love my baby regardless of his "parts", and he's just a special piece of my heart now.   If it does happen to you, though I seriously doubt it will, you'll love your baby through it.  Your baby will bring you through it.  And, though you will hurt over the loss of the daughter you "thought" you had, you'll realize babies are babies and none could be better than your own baby!

GOOD LUCK!  Try to enjoy your pregnancy despite any fear you may have.  It's a special time that is over so fast!

 

URGH I know how you feel! I have a brither-in-law who has a daughter (who is 15 mon) and has always wanted a boy. I have a DD who is 3 then while we were pregnant together I had the boy and they had the girl. Well, iam now pregnant again (swaying for a boy) and he goes "I bet you 10 bucks its a girl." So when I got the u/s pic I went and flashed it to him and said "you owe me 10 bucks.....see the penis?" and he was so mad that I got what I wanted and goes "probably just the cord...." I was soooo happy DH and I swayed so hard for BOTH boys. It hurt me he couldnt just be happy for us.

People just are mean sometimes and you have a pink bundle in that belly so you better shop till you drop and FYI boy or girl its bound to be gorgeous just like those 3 lil boys. I too have 2 blue eyed and a brown eyed.

I am sure its a girl..3 u/ses by 3 diff techs said"Its a girl." PPL just probably cant accept it(I still cant!)

urrgh some people are so annoying ehh, you always get the people that say stupid things, why cant bpeople just be happy for u and not say silly things, im really happy for u hun, god bless, u i have 3 boys and expecting my 4th boy, so waiting too see what i will hear also ha ha , XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

sammy-jane:

urrgh some people are so annoying ehh, you always get the people that say stupid things, why cant bpeople just be happy for u and not say silly things, im really happy for u hun, god bless, u i have 3 boys and expecting my 4th boy, so waiting too see what i will hear also ha ha , XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Congratulations!